What's the most important thing we can teach our childr
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From very early stages in development, children learn how to relate, absorb values, how to communicate, solve problems, behave and so on. They mimic and watch parental interaction continually. They are what they will be at the age of 4 or 5 years old. copyright ybarra-cgm
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So children have a wealth of behavioral information at an early age. We spend most of our time trying to correct it!
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So parents set the bar with their interaction, behavior, communication, problem resolving etc.
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The child takes in the power plays and learns how to manipulate as the parents have shown. It is the parents who produce the monsters through their own negative behavior.
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If you are a well balanced and positive parent, who explains situations, praises, uses positive reinforcement. never abuses whether physically or verbally, develops positive practices like reading, good communication skills and consideration for others then you are on the right track.
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Teenagers are rebellious as we send messages that we do not trust them. They get angry and feel unworthy of trust. copyright ybarra-cgm
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"Be home at 11pm or you are grounded,"
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"Make sure you use a condom as you bear the consequences," copyright ybarra-cgm
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"I'm not letting you take money out of my wallet," copyright ybarra-cgm
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are all negative statements that produce negative outcomes and poor parental regard. ybarra-cgm.com
So nearly all the great positives that we wish to teach our kids, like respect, love for family, respect for others, moral values are already there. We can hone these areas with further positive reinforcement during alter years. Parent set the standards through their behavior!
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And the most important thing? Respect themselves and self esteem. Everything else falls into place.
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Best wishes..
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